Do your friends give you the best divorce strategies?
Whether you like it or not, your possie will make you or break you. The people you surround yourself with from the moment you decide to get divorced, from the moment you’re thinking about getting divorced, the people that you’re talking to, the people you surround yourself with…. will help you to create your future.
Should you listen to your friend’s strategies for divorcing a difficult ex or should you speak with a specialist?
If you surround yourself with people who are in the “I hate my ex-club”: the people who will plant the worst thoughts in your mind and get you so scared and fill you up with these revengeful games and dirty tactics to “screw” one another over and have those kinds of conversations, I guarantee to you you’re not going to have an easy next ten years of your life, you know why? Because you’re going to walk right into the game – the same game that they’re playing. And it’s going to cost you a lot of time and it’s going to cost you a lot of money and I guarantee you a lot of gray hairs also. So, the people you surround yourself with from the very beginning is very important.
Happiness after divorce
It’s like they say, if you want to be wealthy, surround yourself with wealthy people. If you want to be wealthy, don’t surround yourself with people who don’t have money, who don’t have wealth. You need to surround yourself with people who want to move forward with their lives when it comes to divorce. So, if you truly want to move forward with your life, I suggest that you surround yourself with a supportive environment and hopefully, a neutral system, a neutral party, why? Because your parents, your mother, your brother, your sister and your cousins all want you to get everything that they think you deserve. But at the end of the day, they are going to ingest their own worries, fears and anxieties into your decisions and you don’t want that. You want to surround yourself with neutral people who will not tell you what to do and how to do it. You want to surround yourself with people who will fill you up with seeds of thought, will give you different ideas: what to do, how to do it, this is what I did, it didn’t work and I tried this and then it worked and then I did this and then it worked, that’s what you want to do.