This course is for women struggling with their identity and the life altering decision of: Stay married or getting a Divorce?
Hosted by Ms Jai, DbR’s Flight Strategist

This course is ideal for Mothers who are contemplating divorce.

90 Minutes

of videos & audio

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90 Minutes

of videos & audio

Start Today


Have you become the ideal spouse for your partner, but over time realized it’s wasn’t really you? Have you sacrificed, time after time, your own needs to make sure everyone else is good? Have you looked in the mirror lately and not recognize who is looking back at you?

Then it is time to STOP and take a moment. Mirror, Mirror helps you to reflect, challenge your thought process and belief systems, and most importantly develop your emotional intelligence. You begin a journey of self-discovery and exploration into the person you are now and give you the tools and the strength to make the necessary changes to reclaim yourself!

You have questions? Guess what, you have the answers! You just need time and honesty to discover what they are. So let’s get started!

How to Reclaim Your Identity

This course is for women struggling with their identity and the life altering decision of, Do I Stay or Do I Go?Marriage promotes the concept of “becoming one” with your mate, however, for some this means losing their individual identity. Being able to identify WHO you are, gives opportunity to make decisions that are right for you!

This course provides you with the reflective logic, reasoning, and tools to determine the decision that will change the course of your life. You will gain the ability and skillsets in a variety of core competencies that are necessary for personal growth and stability. You will get practical information and insights that help to identify the areas you need to focus on to improve and strengthen your thought process and ultimately, choose the path you desire.

This is about making the change in you to be able to make the changes in your life and relationship. By developing your emotional intelligence gives you options, of either improving your relationship or striking out on your own. The key is to create intentional outcomes of true happiness.

In this reflection series, your journey begins at identifying where you lost yourself in the relationship and the journey to reclaim your identity. Along the way you will develop stronger emotional intelligence and progressive belief systems to enhance your decision making and recognition skills.


The tips, tools, and resources enables you to:

  • Analyze your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats
  • Increase emotional intelligence and resiliency
  • Develop a thorough decision making process
  • Strengthen your ability to manage change, and
  • Achieve intentional outcomes about your relationship


Being a Superhero in a marriage, is being the perfect wife who handles everything and gives to everyone, but neglects their own personal and emotional development and then one day looks in the mirror and ask “Who am I?” 

So, if you are suffering from Superhero syndrome, this course will help you to reclaim your Secret Identity, and increase your capacity and knowledge through skill development and progressive thinking. More importantly, achieve the mindset of self-prioritization and self-care.

Divorce by Rose is a community filled with parents from around the world who have two things in common:

1. Your deepest desire is to give your children deserve the best childhood and, future.

2. You are looking for solutions on how to recreate a beautiful new life- whether you choose to stay married or get divorced.

Age, religion, culture or socio-economic background has no relevance here. The divorce “stories” are similar and you will come to understand the common patterns between families.

Are you on a mission seeking peace and want to feel and be happy, safe & secure? How does it sound to be surrounded by 24/7 support, guidance and direction from our carefully selected coaches, experts & professionals in the divorce industry? With 100% certainty, our community will help YOU become the best version of yourself.

Feeling lost, confused, overwhelmed and desire help to answer “Should I stay married or should I get divorced?”- if so, you are in the right place!

We are not pro marriage or pro divorce either. Rather, we are pro YOU! Our dedication is to help you find the answers that suit you & your family.

On the other hand, if you are certain you want to divorce, and you are looking for  strategies and realistic solutions to guide you towards your next steps as you carefully analyze all your choices and decisions, you will find plenty of options here!



  • Immediate access to this course
  • Exclusive access to the private Community hosted by Ms Jai, DbR’s Flight Strategist. This is only available to mothers who have purchased this course. Where else can you get continuous access to your coach?

Ms. Jai

“Are you ready to see YOU?”

Ms. Jai
Flight Strategist

Meet Your Coach, Ms Jai

DbR's Flight Strategist

My name is Josette Holness, aka Ms. Jai and I am a D.R.I.P Queen (Driven/Resilient/Innovative/Progressive). Professionally, I am a certified Life Coach, by the nationally recognize Certified Coaching Federation, with over 25 years of practice.

I specialize in progression and performance and my philosophy embraces the enhancement of knowledge and capacity as the core fundamentals to advancement and achievement.

My focus is helping Superheroes reclaim their Secret Identity, teaching women, especially moms, to put themselves first. I design tools and techniques that strengthen core competencies to attain intentional outcomes. All of this while laughing and enjoying the journey…I mean you only live once! 

In my private community, you will find:

  • Support on the journey
  • Awareness of your mind, body, and soul
  • Personal and positive development
  • Reclaim of your Secret Identity before you became a Superhero

This is a place where you are seen and acknowledged, encouraged and respected, loved and cherished because YOU MATTER! ♥

Let’s Flyy!

Ms Jai's Credentials

Founder, Beautiful Women Society 

Life Coach, Certified Coaching Federation

Performance Coach, National Coaching Certification Program

Certified Business Management Consultant

City Managers Award and Mayors Award for Community Development Projects

Made Forbes Top 10 Business Coaches to Scale Your Business

How Our Divorce Community App Works

Template Join us ANONYMOUSLY 1. Sign up using a fake first name and last name. Feel safe & secure to speak, ask & share what’s on your mind - no one will recognize you! (Some friendly advice ... if you do not want your spouse or soon to be mother-out-law to start a gossip column on what you wrote, do not post on public forums) Watch video Get 24/7 access to guidance, direction and support 2. Benefit from our community that provides you with “proper and realistic” solutions! You will never be alone again and you will not have to "figure it out" on your own either!  And, avoid the unnecessary stress from the abundant trial & errors. Watch video Our exclusive (and bite-sized) courses will show you what next steps to take 3. The success of your situation will ALWAYS start off and end of with YOU, your skills and strategies! The success of your situation will ALWAYS start off and end of with YOU, your skills and strategies! In divorce, we don't know what we don't know, UNTIL someone shows us. 
Each course consists of videos/audios that are under 10 minutes. Includes exclusive access to a private tribe: meet & share with like-minded parents.
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Feel like chatting with someone who “gets” you? 4. DM with the coaches or another parent, any hour of the day! We are pretty sure someone else is thinking the same thing as you and will provide you with the neutral advice that you need right NOW! Your friends & family will tell you what you WANT to hear. We tell you what you NEED to know.  Watch video app-cover

Who Should  Join DbR?

  • If you are a mom or dad and you’re contemplating divorce or newly separated
  • Whether it is being imposed on you or you are the one making the decision
  • If you are feeling lost, confused, and overwhelmed
  • You are emotional and need someone to show you HOW & WHAT to do
  • You feel alone & you need someone to talk to